Sorry I have not been as active with being full-time in language school. Buti havea question. How do you help deal with jealousy and comparisons? I will give the current scenario...

My oldest son's birthday is the beginning of June and he often gets gifts. My youngest's (also a son) is the end of June and also usually gets gifts from friends. My twin girls' birthday is the end of August and they have never gotten many gifts from friends and have even had a party where they didn't get gifts from two friends and then another friend gave my twins' gifts to other friends at the party because it was bath and body works and my girls mentioned that gives me migraines.. My other daughter's birthday is exactly a week later and she has usually gotten barbie stuff. So there is a discrepancy. They are really struggling with unforgiveness, resentment, anger, jealousy, and bitterness and I recognize why. Just don't know how to help them get past this. It impacts their everyday life. Try to help them recognize blessings, encourage them, talk them through it, validate what they have experienced... Just struggling. Help!!!!!